Profile shongololo: Sexy South African, with a brain!

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As I'll be honest here: I'm an independent girl, content with life, and not looking for a life partner. But I am looking for some fun! I want to spend time with someone who doesn't want commitment but does want to experience the finer things in life with someone who will appreciate them. Who will delight in being taken to the theatre or off for weekend breaks in cosy hotels or glamorous cities. Who is happy to meet up when each others' diaries suit, and make the most of the time we've got, without demands and making the most of life.

I work, with passion, in education, I'm a complete bibliophile and lover of a good yarn, having an entirely pointless postgraduate degree in such things. I listen to too much radio four than is good for me, have a love of comedy, comedians, and anything else ridiculous. I am a hopeless humanist and relativist (driving all 'black and white' kind of people insane with my many layers of grey - especially my South African relatives). So people fascinate me; I'm a bit of an observer with a dreadful habit of staring into peoples living rooms to see the lives people lead.I've got 2 older children who have a father and have no need for another.

As I've said, life is too short to spend it just on the drudgery of the day-to-day, I want to live it, and would love someone, who has the means, to share these moments with me.
Sign Scorpio

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

Status What do you do?

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Outcast
My Social Behavior Is Observant, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Reading, Learning, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be To be take to the ballet, or to see a classic must-see-in-your-lifetime play. To be taken to a beautiful restaurant and to end the night chatting till the wee-small hours.
I've Always Wanted To Try All the major European cities! All the best cultural events England has to offer.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Atheist
I Attend Services Once A Year
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is To make the most of what life has to offer. I've got a perfect homelife, but I don't want to forget about my needs, I want to look back and go: Gosh didn't I have fun.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Comedy, Drama, Family
My Idea Of Fun Is Theatre, gorgeous restaurants, Cultural weekends, beach weekends, spit and sawdust pubs with local musicians, The ballet, Reading newspapers in bed with someone on a rainy day having raided the fridge, long discussions about life, the universe and everything, laughing.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I'll know... but someone who makes me feel beautiful and sexy, is always going to be a very good start.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate