Profile peaceandlovepa: peace and love

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As Im an owner/stylist...Im a mother and a grandmother...Im calm...Im funny....I love to learn....here is something for us all to ponder...
Trust and respect have been so long lost that you spend more time testing one another, making each other prove yourselves, finding reasons to doubt each other, and vying for control than you do creating and enjoying your love relationships. And these things you call love relationships are often little more than addictive pain patterns being acted out. Love does not need to possess, control, degrade, withhold, prove anything, distrust, or conquer. Love simply loves. It flows. It is uninhibited, uncontrived, natural, innocent, and spontaneous. And while discernment is needed in the selection of a partner, it need not prohibit you from loving everyone. Did you know that humans are terrified of feeling the totality of unconditional love? You have been taught to restrain yourselves lest you make a fool of yourselves. You have been taught that it is impossible to love fully without hurting if the other person does not return your love and promise to stay forever. Without 100 percent guarantee that you will not "lose, " you hold back a little or a lot. It does not really matter how much. The point is that the flow has been dammed and therefore controlled.

What if love were only possible by forfeiting all guarantees? What if love could only exist in the presence of surrender? What if there were no such thing as loss, only change? What if you had to let go before the other person did without knowing whether he or she will ever let go or not? You would risk disappointment; but that is all. If you have healthy self-esteem and self-love the person you love cannot devastate or humiliate you. He or she cannot make you feel unworthy; only you can! The object of love is not to win someone over, break through their barriers, make them need or desire you, or make sure you don't lose. The object of love is to love, to cherish, to honor, to adore, to respect, to never harm, to appreciate and never depreciate another. You can even love without objectification. This is the nature of your true being, your soul, your spirit. To experience love for no apparent reason and for no ulterior motive is a great sign that you are nearing completion of your trials and karmic pain. It is the way home to your true self. In the meantime, allowing yourself to objectify love is a step in the right direction. To fill your life with friends and/or a partner who naturally inspire you to love is a wonderful thing.
Sign Leo

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Average
My Height Is 5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is African American, Asian, Indian, Native American, Caucasian, Other
My Marital Situation Is Never Married
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids No
My Best Feature Is Smile
Body Art Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Self-employed
My Speciality Is Other
My Job Title Is owner/stylist
I Live With Kid(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is Reserved
My Interest And Hobbies Are Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Internet, Family, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Shopping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Going Shopping, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be A nice place where we can talk and have good food and drink...
I've Always Wanted To Try Rowing
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Once A Week
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is Is to be a wife, own a Tea Cafe, live a healthy happy lifestyle.
My Kind Of Humor Is Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Documentaries, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read Ancient, Biography, Fantasy, History, Instructional, Nature, Science
My Idea Of Fun Is Shopping, learning something new.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Power, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? A real person, who has a real agenda, one who can be honest about what they want...good, bad, or ugly....just be up front with who and what you are.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed